If I am giving him free rent and food... plus a place for him to leave his kids at while he is out fishing or busy getting action, that's more than enough. As far as respect goes... when he was married, the only time I saw him and his family was when he needed me to fix something so that he wouldn't have to pay someone to do the job. I'm not say he can't use his system to dial-in, just respect me and the wife enough to only spend an hour or two on it and not the whole afternoon... plus evening. You know, either me or the wife cooks his meals, the decent thing he could do is wash them when he's done eating. He never eats a meal with us. He'll wait until we are done at times and as soon as we are done washing our dishes, 10 mins later, he's eating and then leaves the dishes there for us to wash.