Originally Posted by TaekOne
k, i didnt wanna hijack your thread
h: so i put one up about some of the stuff i been thinkin of lately.
besides that, the whole crap about the accident. i dont wanna sound like a freakin baby, but it was my first accident and it was pretty big. having to take care of insurance, days i took off, still tryin to set up an appointment to get checked up, dealing w/ the other passengers in my car, and driving around a piece-of-garbage taurus is taking a toll on my head.
I've see your accident pictures. That's not a light fender bender at all. that was a pretty nasty looking impact.
Going though all this crap ... I bet you're starting to wonder, "why me"?
Originally Posted by TaekOne
i guess my health is a concern, and i think i wouldve gone straight to a doctors after gettin rear-ended if i knew the area better. even though ive lived up here for almost a yr, i still dont know stuff like whats a good hospital/doctor to go to. it doesnt help that i missed the deadline for signing up for health insurance through my company. my work-buddy (like a mentor) forgot to remind me about the deadline and i missed it. i mean come on, ive never had to deal w/ this stuff so it wasnt fully on my mind. now im like ugh, whatever. just have to wait for the next open enrollment which is like january...
Oh man. How long ago was the deadline? If you talk to HR, you might be able to get around it, you never know.
Originally Posted by TaekOne
i wanna go back to school. i love learning and i love being in an open, academic environment. but this requires $$$, and i dont have any. i wish i could drop my job and go back for a masters somewhere, but thats impossible w/o accumulating a greater mass of debt.
Does your office offer educational reimbursement? I'd look into that, you never know!
Originally Posted by TaekOne
sunday will be the first mothers' day since our family split up and i wanna try to do something special for my mom. she really didnt deserve what happened to her. and since im in nova, my moms an hr away, my middle brother is in college, we're so spread out i feel like shes not getting enough support.
It's the thought that counts, remember that. If you speak to your mom, tell her exactly what you just said. Parents aren't mind readers, let her know how you feel ... tell her your heart is with her.
Originally Posted by TaekOne
...ok that was a lot. and i know thats just the half and im not a whiner, trust me
naw man, there's a time and place for everything ... hopefully this is it. People stress quite a bit because if inner issues eating them up. There's no predetermined solution to anything ... but it just helps talking about it.