Holly shit. That's horrible. Weird.. Grey's Anatomy had an episode about a crash and a pregnant lady. Baby survived, but she didn't. The med student that fell asleep at the wheel and crashed into her car wanted to ask the father for forgiveness. One of the most powerful moments on tv I've ever witnessed. Doesn't compare to what your friend is going through in real life, but I hope he has people around him that can help him forgive himself for that.