That's cool, Jay. I sort of went through the same thing a few years ago, except I was never baller status
I wouldn't be so hard on yourself, though. I mean, you're probably one of the most family/friend oriented people I know. All of us want to have nice things in life, but you're right, sometimes we forget how happy the basics make us.
btw, we still have to get together for some golf; I have a wicked slice I need to show off :chuckles: