no, the 99-00 sedan tails will not fit into your 96-98 sedan
i recommend u save some money and paint ur headlight housings urself, and if u want the city light i'm sure there's a way u can drill a hole into ur headlights and make some sorta of harness for the city light..
as for the tail lights, you can get some red/clears and tint the top or bottom half.. it'll match your headlights