so what's the update? what's your gf thinking and feeling? i completely understand why she wants to let it drop. but ask her to think about what would have happened if he hadn't told her what he gave her, or if she hadn't gotten out of that situation in time? you guys should do what you can to make sure this doesn't happen to someone else. what if it happens to one of her friends? wouldn't she wish that she had done something to prevent it?