Originally Posted by 94civicEX
In talking to my GF about the situation I saw her viewpoint.
1) She said she is probably really embarassed.
2) Had something sexual happened, it would be completely different.
3) You might live in a small town, or a small group of friends where something like this would ruin them all.
While she understand how a man would respond, she views these as being probable reasons that she doesn't want to pursue it.
Yep, that's exactly how she feels after listening to her cry about it for 2 hours yesterday
The guy didn't try anything, she has no idea what his motives were, she's willing to let it go.
She's not hiding anything, wants nothing to do with this guy...she's just thankful (as am I) that nothing bad happened and is willing to let it go. If she was lying she would have broken by now, she's just really embarassed about it and
However, we both agree that we're worried he'll pull this shit on someone else and get a date rape out of it. I'm going to gather up some info on him and contact the police. This happened near Toronto, ON and he's a Canadian resident.
I think any of you that have a girlfriend or know anything about women can understand why she wouldn't want to go to the police. Nothing bad happened and she's perfectly fine today. This guy was a friend and is a friend of all of her friends. Calling the cops on him will probably stir up a lot of shit that doesn't really need to be stirred. However, like I said, I will be contacting the local police about this guy; however, I don't know if it's going to do any good. Apparently he works at a bar in Richmond Hill, ON and also works for the city of Toronto in Scarborough if it means anything to the ON people in here. I don't know exactly what his role in drugs is, my girlfriend had no idea he was into any of it.
Chanc, I hate to say it, but you seem to be the voice of reason
