Found the leak!!!
ok i dont know what you call it but it is the piece that lines where the door shuts. i looked for it on the acuraoemparts.com and couldnt find it. it doesnt go on the door. but where the door shuts.
i tried spraying it with water with the door open. i started from the bottom close to the dash and it worked well tilll i got up to where it is parallel to the windshield. then it started flowing to the inside and dripping on the floor instead of on the sideskirt.
so i pulled it off and noticed that there is a lip that bulges downward right there and i am thinking of just hammering that in or something. any ideas? sorry it was so long but i think i needed to explain myself.