I'd be careful about the RSX wheels...I've heard of brake caliper clearance problems on Accords.
You have a really nice selection of OEM wheels to use in 16 and 17. Some of my favorite are the optional OEM "Silverstar" 17" 5-spoke gunmetal wheels. Perfect offset, look great. Previous gen TL, CL and S variants all will be a good match. First gen CL wheels will not fit and only come in 16". TSX wheels will fit great and look great as well. Any Accord 5 lug wheel will work and have great fitment.
The new Acura TL wheels will bolt up, but the offset makes them stick out a bit.