that black thing on the door...the bump guard or whatever it's called, i think should be removed. many people i've seen remove it and it looks much better and JDM without it, trust me. as far as a drop, i think 2 inches is fine. the side skirts, well...do you want to buy aftermarket aerodynamic skirts or just leave them stock? if you're going to leave it stock, paint it, if you're going to buy aftermarkets...leave it. as far as headlights, i THINK
http://www.secureleadercom.com/exsto...nfrontpage.asp has some nice black housed headlights or possible angel eyes for your year and model. i think someone here could probably tell you a DIY on making your headlights black housing.