im sorry about your breakup. there is something about relationships that hit almost 3 yrs. u stay together or u move on. boredom can set in and taking each other for granted.. at least u were honest enough to tell her now instead of waiting till your ambivelance got the worst of u. i dont think yours is a situation of the grass is greener syndrome. people do move apart, go in different directions without a bad girl or guy. people pleasers dont know how to ask for what they want. so they say yes when they may mean no to avoid hurt feelings. see how things go. u may look her up down the road.