enough with the domestic bashing, guys. there's no need for that here. let's save the ignorance for someone else.
anyway, the original poster may want to try PDR (paintless dent removal). however, the thing i HATE about that process is that they drill several holes into your body to get to the dents and dings that they want to tap out. i had one panel done on the integra years ago.
3 freakin' holes drilled through the passenger-side wheel well, and 1 through the door frame. had i known they were going to do that, i would have never brought it in.