So let me ask...if you were to let's say get into hard times would your in-laws have your back...i can guarantee no. If they are struggling to pay there own bills and then you are struggling to pay your bills...how good are you to them if you dont have money and how good are you to yourself if all of a sudden you have to sell your house for an apt because your inlaws are living beyond there means...I dont wanna sound like a dick but it seems like ya wife is wearing the pants and has the Cojones in this marriage.