Originally Posted by Civic2Scooby
omg hell yes...when they were ready...I hate parents who deny/hide what they did from their children and then punish them for the exact thing you were trying to figure out when you were there age.......same rules for my kids as my parents had.....If it isnt hurting your grades your overall health and you dont get busted....have at it....but as soon as it does...the shoe goes up the ass
absolteuly agree with you. personally, my parents have always been pretty open ... for asian parents. as the years went on, they continued to become more and more relaxed with my ways, but they still would never approve of drinking at parties to get drunk, drugs, etc etc.
its absolutely ridiculous the way some parents think. if you tell someone to not do something, human nature raises the curiosity. i'd much rather have my children be educated and comfortable than aimlessly plunging into the dark trying who knows what.
one of my life philosophies that ive always stuck by is that "if it doesn't kill you, or get you really fucked up in life, then its worth trying atleast once"