to turn off/fix the SRS light:
http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=4292043029
go to picture #10 (thanks to brian. it helped turn mine off when something went wrong too)...

...as for "dance lights" or neons triggering your SRS light, i've never heard of it. mine have been triggered once when i put on my blackhousings a week after messing with my gauges (odd huh?) but that's the only time. I've had my neon dance lights on for like 4 months previous to that. never had a problem with it.

oh yeah, and don't put it with your cigarette lighter. that's :gay: and cheap i might add. just put your extra 30 minutes into the work, get some wires, crimps, a switch, and a fuse to wire everything in. use your 12V outlet for something more useful. like charging your phone to make big business calls and important personal calls.