Your better off building your own set-up.
The best ecu from what I hear is the AEM EMS, but thats kind of expensive so the next best would be hondata.
Ditch the vafc it's going to be worthless. If your going to do this the right way you will need larger injectors and the fuel pump will depend on how much power you plan to make....When it comes to turbo's everything you do depends upon other components...such as injectors if and what size depends on the amount of power your looking to make and the form of tuning your going with.
If you'll need a new pump depends on the amount of power you plan to make, the form of tuning, and your injectors size.
The turbo size depends on the amount of power you want to make....
Method of tuning depends on how much you like having a car to drive around everyday....etc.....see where I'm going here?
What parts you can and will need depends on your budget....speaking of you never did clarify that for me....I can help you a lot better once you give me a budget....I belive it's about $1,500 in U.S currency correct?