Last night i totalled my GTI VR6 avoiding a cat and i went rocketing up the pole to ground powerlines

, ouch! anyway, i loved my gti, but i am considering a integra GS-R. i've seen the numbers and really that means nothing. I would like to know the following
Fun factor (How fun is the GS-R compared to GTI)?
Handleing (Stock Vs Stock)?
How bad is the tourqe difference?
How noticable is the power difference?
My VW was VERY reliable slolom racer are GS-Rs realiable after mods?
Im into Slolom racing is the GS-R good for modding?
Lastly what are quality places to get performance for a track goer such as i?
Your help is very much appreiciated!