darks cold
darks warm
lights cold
lights warm
whites
liquid tide i add to the basket first. then beging running water. i don't add clothes until the bottom is covered in water and detergent concentrate is diluted somewhat (this prevents those big stains you'd see in your jeans and such under blacklight).
color-safe bleach with the darks and lights, chlorine bleach with the whites. sometimes if i'm washing clothes that have grease in them i will add VERY small amount of simple green so the grease will drain out instead of reabsorbing.
dryer sheet.