ok couple things...

im not new to mechanics but new to cars for the most part...i ordered obx wires ...checked out the wires compared to my stocks and thay are wayyyyyy to long...and the plugs dont fit properly in the holes...they come out with out even really pulling at all...what should i do?

the drivers side left arm rest in the door panel dissapeared last night...idk where it went it was there then it was gone i drove back to everywhere i went last night and its gone?!!! where can i get one of these besides spending time looking for a 97-01 prelude in a junkyard lol

i also ordered a strut/tie bar kit for my 99 lude.....but the packaging says 92-96...so im assuming either they didnt change the frame since then or they arent gonna fit!? anyone know?