Originally Posted by e3NiNe
Agreed. A 9 year gap is a bit too far only because you're at different points in your life.
She's never been to a bar legally and you're starting to settle down. The headaches might not be worth it.
It's especially true the younger you are. There's a reason why a biddy football team will be destroyed by a varisty football team when they're 6-years apart, but a 34 year old NFL player will play on par with a 28 year old player.
Same thing is true for relationships.