You might want to look into superchargers for that engine instead of turbos.
It seems like you have high hopes for your Accord, and you can make those hope a reality if you stay commited. The thing is to pick a theme and stay committed to it. Don't do a whole lot of mis-matching parts when you can help it and be patient when it comes to finding parts and putting them on.
And it's good to find a proffesional whenever you're doing stuff that you aren't sure about.