All depends what you're going for man. It sounds like you want a daily driver with some pep.
First, if you want to modify the outside, be very careful. If you're not going to go fast, dont make it look like you are-especially in an accord. On the other hand, styling and minor touch ups can be done.
The easiest things you can do is intake and exhaust. Since you just want intake, I would recommend MSD also. It will improve gas mileage and idle response.
Tein might have a little something for your suspension, too. That'll help you're defensive driving skills on the way to the soccer game.
Jake