Haven't read the whole thread but: That's just gay, i cant believe anyone would do that to someones car. The whole DSM vs. Honda, hondas are better, dsms are better, I hate you, you hate me, etc. Theres no reason in the world to mess up someones car, i would personally rather get the shit kicked out of me than have someone fuck with my car, Be it my DSM or integra.
Good luck w/ the insurance, and i hope you find out who it is man