Jae.. I'm gonna give you my upmost honest opinion. You're a good kid.. but, from our conversations, I get the feeling you NEED to be in a relationship. It has been the topic of many of our IMs. And to be honest.. I personally think you need to work on you right now. I've been handed two of the most shittiest breakups I've ever heard of. And what did I do? I dragged myself up by the shirtcollar, brushed myself off, and concentrated on me. I treated myself.. pampered myself.. and just basically found complete happiness in the joys of being single. And right now.. that's perfectly okay for me. I see my friends deal with the relationship bullshit.. and it just doesn't appeal to me at the moment. I wanna do things for me. Yeah.. it's okay to dwell and pine for a little bit. But dude... even after a two year relationship.. the most dwelling I did was four months. And even THAT was too much. Work on you... be happy with who you are. Focus on what YOU want to do. Don't work hard to find another relationship. It's okay to be single. Find yourself.. and eventually.. love will find you when you least expect it.

Trust me bro... I wouldn't steer you wrong.