OK Schmiddy I found that part for a little bit cheaper online:
$162 from Honda-parts.net
I still may pass on this, but I do have a fettish for expensive tools in my tool box
I'll swing by Napa today

But I thought I'd post this info for others.
Anyone in Chicagoland willing to lend me a hand on ripping my suspesion apart, my trunk monkey ran away and my wife refuses to let me buy another unreliable Gibbon.......
I like working with a buddy, then someone can jack the car back up when slips off the stands falls on top of you......