Wash Car - Zymol Clear Car Wash
Dry Car - Bath towels (+ water blade)
Claybar - Griot's Clay Bar or Meguair's (yellow line) Clay Bar
Applicators - cotton stitched foam applicators or terry applicators
Swirl Mark Remover - 3M or Zaino Swirl Mark Remover
Polish - Zaino Z-2 or Zymol car polish + microfiber
Wax - Meguiars Hi Tech Yellow Wax #26 or Zymol wax + microfiber
Dust-off's - 3M, Zaino Z6, or Meguiar's Quik Detailer

...if you can afford it all.

and here's some readup material...
http://www.zainobros.com
http://www.zymol.com
http://www.griotsgarage.com
http://www.meguiars.com

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