You should really go to the dealership and test drive a TL with a 6speed too if you want a stick. It is all personal preference and these are 2 totally different cars. Only yourself can tell you if the TL is the right car for you. You will definitely miss the sporty car feel, but you will gain in luxury and refinement.
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