the way you are conducting yourself on this board is something that will not be accepted kindly by the posters here. I read your post and frankly your posts are not as clear as they could be. If you feel that you are not getting the answers you want, why are you posting this again? If you slow down and read what you posted, it would make sense to why others could not give you a clear answer.
to sum up what they said, this controller is not something that can be tuned correctly without the proper equipement. if this is a stock motor(JDM or not), you will have minimal gains. if you motor is modified, you need a dyno to correctly set the information you would like to adjust. there is not a predifined set of parameters for you setup. to answer your original post clearly - you need to take your car to a dyno in order to correctly set it. now if you would respond with kind words, you may be helped accordingly, but if you choose to conduct yourself in the manner you did in the above post, please leave this site.