well we met i THINK around 6-7 months after her break up with him...its funny though, sometimes this part of her will come out and say "fck him, what a loser, etc..." and then she will be like "i don't know how i could think that about someone who i cared for so deeply..etc" i know she really wants to love me and at times i know its there, but its like there is this barrier...ughhhh!!?!