so your fule pumpoand instrument panel are dead when your cranking it???? LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i was going vrazy wondering what it was and im overseas right now so i need to order this relay well i wanted to wait and see if the same thing is happening or has happened to someone else before I went ahead and ordered one online...Man Im a chick so I dont know too much about cars but its weird its like the car starts when it wants too.. like this morning i left it at work over night well it started right up then when i got off work it didnt start.. some friends if mine said it was my ignition switch but if your saying the same thing is happening to your honda then it has to be the relay... LOL!!!!!!!!!