well looks like i'll be ordering this one
http://www.etronics.com/product.asp?...re=&catid=5748
has every thing 20ft 4gauge, 3ft 4 gauge for grounding, 12 ft speaker wire, and everythin else. 20 bucks aint bad not to mention i live in NYC and i get it in 1 day
as for installing all my stuff should i go prefessional cuz i dont have much experience with this... it seems pretty easy and all but i dont wanna fuck it up... i have the extra money to spend on installation so i think i would prolly be better off doing that