In all honesty, it depends on the girl. If she's pretty open-minded and completely comfortable with you and sex as a whole, then it'll make the whole experience a lot easier on her and you. If she's real shy and "closeminded" about the subject, it might not be such a smooth process.

Either way, take it slow. Don't just stick it in there and go to town...foreplay and lube (whether it's your/her saliva or a KY type of product) will be your bestfriend. Make sure she's 110% comfortable and ready...try to get her to relax, the more she tenses up the more it's going to hurt her. The vagina expands with arousal, so get her to the point that she's begging for it.

As for the bleeding...i thought i would be swimming in blood my first time...but there wasn't even a drop. I walked kind of funny for a day or so h: And don't think that after the 1st time it'll be smooth sailing from there...it might take a few times until she's able to take you in with little to no pain.

And like stated before, don't expect it to be fun. You more than likely won't get off this time.

Good Luck :thumbup: