Originally Posted by TTT
she started it :dunno:
And i don't see myself as having not moved on.... i have moved on, i just thought it would be nice if the x and i could still be friends, but that didnt work... live and learn.
usually you cant be friends with an ex...at least not right away. You def. gotta give it time. I'm the same situation kinda right now. My ex, we decided to try to be friends now...We've been thru much shit together so were trying. We call each other randomly, but never hang out, just to kinda check up on each other. He's moved on, I've moved on...but take it SLOW on the frienship...She's obviously not over you, and it might giver her the wrong idea
Originally Posted by mikemerc85
:nono: definately DO NOT have any contact with her for the next week or so, this will be good therapy for her.
Yeh...coming from a girl...the more you ignore us, the more we get away from you. Well thats how it is with me..I dont like being in uncomfortable situations, so if i feel the guy is ignoring me for a reason then i back off. If he wanted to see/talk to me, then he can call me. She doesnt know it yet, but the time alone will make he realize a lot of sh*t