ok sorry i didnt post sooner, i went out there and figured out how to do it. i dont know the difference between an ek and an eg. its a 96 hx 2 door. the oem switch i have does click in and stay in and then push it again, and it comes out. and i can hear the relay kicking in.
i just ran the power for the illumination light on the switch to a certain pin, then the ground to another pin, and the fog light(i guess relay wire) to another pin. so i only used 3 pins instead of all 5.
my fogs stay on when i have the high beams on, so i guess the other 2 pins have something to do with that, but im not worried about it. it works, and thats all that matters. but thanks for all the help anyways guys.