So my rear right shock is blown and I might of found out why it went so quick. I was trying to install my new suspension set-up to day and i noticed that the rear trailing arm on the right side was a little odd. It seems that the bushing in the RTA wasn't bolted on. Well the bushing was in and aside from minor dry cracks it seems fine, but the metal piece inside of the bushing wasn't bolted it. It looks like it bolts onto the frame. It is round in the middle and flat on the end. The round part goes into the bushing and flat part bolts into the frame.

http://www.racerwheel.com/e12-167106-g.html

You can see it in this url. It's the black thing. Well anyways I'm buying a new bolt the put in there and it would help alot if I knew what it was called so I can order one from work or a dealership. Thanks alot guys.