Don't listen to these people they basicaly don't know shit! Sorry guys but after reading what you typed you don't seem very bright on this topic.
Anyways james said what you need. You DO NOT NEED A manual ECU. you can use your auto ecu.Also Being that you are getting into a cable setup it makes thing so much easier. I have everything you need. Pedals,cable,B16 tranny,flywheel,Flywheel bolts(very important to have since there longer),Shift linkage,consule, I have everything but the clutch (since you will want it new anyways). I will give you everything for $550 and that's cheap! Since just the tranny cost me $500(got papers). Either way goodluck with your swap and DON'T buy another car. That just sucks. It feels better knowing you did something your own car. Goodluck.