Why don't you look at the www.tirerack.com.

I'd look for a 17" rim myself and look for a rim offset between +45 and +50mm for your car I believe. This should be a good balance between looks and daily use.

A set of 17" honda rims from www.handa-accessories.com might fit the bill as well.

And save your steal rims for use in the winter if they use road salt in your area.