welcome, 05Couper.

I agree with all of jschmid's suggestions.

you'll find that the consensus opinion here is that chrome rims don't belong on hondas. everything else (size, color, etc.) is up to you. a lot of people like gunmetal and bronze. there is a lot of useful info on suspension on here, especially LordAccord's new suspension FAQ. search for one of his posts and he has the FAQ linked in his sig. be prepared to spend if you want to lower the right way.