sounds pretty good man! ill give my opinion tho...

as far as the wing goes, i would advise against it. anything that is ebay painted for whatever color you want cant be good. i didnt read the whole thing but i wouldnt get it unless it was an oem honda one. i just bought one actually for my car(thaks again teg92!) and the wing will fit in to ur holes where your old wing went with the exception of 1 hole on each side. i pluged mine up but im getting it filled and then the whole hatch resprayed.

when u say apexi n1 dual do u mean duel exhaust?? theres really no point for fake dual exhaust unless ur doin it for looks. n1 is a great exhaust i have it on my teg and love it!

the v2 is overpriced, just my opinion. i was lookin into buyin that one for myself but posted here on HAN and got a response. i was basically told by tons of people here that the gains from the v2 and a AEM sri were neglible. also with a short ram you dont need to worry about hydrolocking. i ended up goin with a comptech intake with icebox and i love it!

as far as a clutch goes i would say ACT or EXEDY. i put in a b&m short shifter and i love it. i went ahead and did the poly urethane shift bushings at the same time(just convienante). from what i have heard the skunk 2 short shifter is pretty nice and that one has the bend in it like the stock shifter(the b&m does not).

best of luck gettin stuff for your teg. make sure u post some pics up!