ARP head bolts question
Im building an LS-Vtec and Im using some ARP head bolts. Ive noticed that when you put them on the block the only way to tighten them is with an allen wrench. Also once the head is on and I try to tighten the nuts onto the bolts either the bolts will start coming out or the nut will go too far in. I dont have a torque wrench so Im kinda just shooting for the proper torque specs. The only socket that Ive found to fit the ARP nuts is a 1/2" star pattern socket and Ive noticed that the star pattern only comes in a shirt socket. My question is... How exactly am I supposed to go about setting the ARP head bolts, washers, and nuts so I can properly tighten them??