Originally Posted by swaggs21
When I was in the military in AL, I used to be like you, I was just "out of my element" I guess you could say.... I had to learn to be comfortable with the situation, and come to terms that girls were not to kill me if I talked to them.
Now that I am back home, I can pretty much talk to any girl, doesnt matter if she is hot or not, just had to realize that they were no different than me.....
You might want to hang out with girls on a more frequent basis, this usually makes you a lot more comfortable being around them, and after that, let the games begin!!
actually this is true. THe more comfortable you are with yourself, the more confident you are to talk with other women. i agree with swaggs when he says, try to realize that that there is no difference between you and them. If you put someone higher then yourself, chances are nothing is going to happen. Act like you. Thats exactly what women are going to have to deal with in the long run, you.
and breathmints are good too.