When I was in the military in AL, I used to be like you, I was just "out of my element" I guess you could say.... I had to learn to be comfortable with the situation, and come to terms that girls were not to kill me if I talked to them.

Now that I am back home, I can pretty much talk to any girl, doesnt matter if she is hot or not, just had to realize that they were no different than me.....

You might want to hang out with girls on a more frequent basis, this usually makes you a lot more comfortable being around them, and after that, let the games begin!!