yeh go see someone. I am currently seieng someone now and it helps a GREAT DEAL. They aren't there to judge you, they are there to listen and only give advice. They wont tell you which way to go, but they will you understand why you are feeling the way you do, and they will talk you thru everything. I've gone to two in my whole lifetime (this is my second one) and shes helping so much. She actually is convincing me to join her relationship group therapy..dont be ashamed of going to see a 'shrink' a lot of ppl have one...hell even the therapist have their own therapist