Alright, no one helped much. I ordered KYB AGX Shocks, and skunk2 coilover sleeves, as well as the Ingalls balljoint kit.

This setup any good?

I hope so... 775 bucks later.

The rear I will just use the bolt and washer trick. I'm going to see if I install this all myself rather than going to the shop. I can get an alignment from a friend for like 30 bucks after it's all said and done.