So just an update...............i got home and he left me a note.........a ****ing note........what kind of woman can't talk to another guy face to face and writes a note? anyhoo the note goes "If I have to do this one more time I'm moving out"

Basically he means cleaning.............i had really no idea so i left him a note as i have a presentation tomorrow at work and can't stay up and wait for him to wake up.........my note goes

"good don't let the door hit u on the way out"

nah j/k

i go "alright sorry, i'll try to keep it cleaner in the future..........however u need to talk to me, i can't read your mind and had really no clue you felt this way. I'm not that hard to talk to, i realize you are pretty quiet but if something is bothering you, you need to speak up, lets divide up the cleaning from now on, my suggestion is since i don't eat very much........you take the kitchen and i'll take the living room? anyways, call my office tomorrow if u want to talk, i might be in the conference room with Kevin so leave a msg with my secretary and i'll call u back.........later"

I think I was pretty fair right?