Nah, it's plenty helpful...thanks for the input. I just wish she didn't say that she didn't have any secrets or big issues and then explain to me that there's a side of her she has never told me about. Like I said, those are the reasons I close up and don't completely trust people. I mean I do trust her, but anyway...what makes it worse is that I naturally analyze and think things over too much...never a great thing.