Greddy header 4-2-1 $284 each: 4-2-1 for ur ls engine, it's also stainless steel, Carb legal and a step down from DC headers that go for $400?
http://www.adventon.com/acb/showprod...ctGroup_ID=425
high flow cat: you can get the popular carsound high flow cat, but i wouldn't do it if your just going for performence upgrades, but if your cat needs replacing. then do it, IMHO, your choice on this.
as for ur exhaust: Greddy EVoII, $459. it's a full catback (same website). But that's my opinion, look at this site and choose a exhaust system that u like the sound of.
http://www.team-integra.net/sections...?ArticleID=451
then u need an intake to have a full system, but you said "from the header back."
you can do some searching too, alot of questions like so have been covered.
*edit* intake is about $150-250. so a little over $1,000 for your project.