Originally Posted by sleepin95
True you cheated, your fault, non the less though, there does come a point to forgive...maybe not forget, but he needs to get over it. ya know...remind your self it is his loss for giving up up and not forgiving you completely, and don't ponder the things you can not change...it happened, live and learn, and the next relationship is to be better...I tried the whole friends after dating thing, it worked with most, but there was a select few who it just wouldnt work with, cause it was unbearable, even if I was the one that left them...but I couldn't change it...and I had to just suck it up
point...his loss, dont think about the things you can not change...one thing lies ahead, the future, not the past
good idea...im trying..its hard, but im talkin to my roommate about it a lot cuz she was a big part of the relationship. (shes a best friend of mine, and my bf talked to her a lot too) so its helping, she lets me cry when i have to, lets me yell when i have to, and stuff...im slowly getting past. I talk to him, and stuff and its helping. I'd rather talk to him rather than not, ya know? Its sumthing that i do when i need to get over things. I talk to him and slowly i get used to not talkin to him all the time, and then im over it. But we'll see wat the future holds for us and me
THANKS GUYS FOR ALL THE ADVICE. yOU'VE ALL HELPED
