Originally Posted by KrnHottie02
the sad thing is...that i did cheat on him...it was with a good friend of mine, but i gave into temptation and i messed up. He knows about it, and he still stayed with me. This happened over a year ago, and he stayed w/me for a year after i told him, so im a lil confused somewhat. I guess maybe he couldnt handle it anymore...but idk...hes hurt and i understand. I was cheated on from my previous BF and i was hurt...but i guess its too late now
we're stil talking, but it hurts knowing that im not with him ne more...
in the words of a good friend
"Brush ya shouldas off"
True you cheated, your fault, non the less though, there does come a point to forgive...maybe not forget, but he needs to get over it. ya know...remind your self it is his loss for giving up up and not forgiving you completely, and don't ponder the things you can not change...it happened, live and learn, and the next relationship is to be better...I tried the whole friends after dating thing, it worked with most, but there was a select few who it just wouldnt work with, cause it was unbearable, even if I was the one that left them...but I couldn't change it...and I had to just suck it up
point...his loss, dont think about the things you can not change...one thing lies ahead, the future, not the past