Originally Posted by DaKarMaul
once a cheater, always a cheater.
no people don't change.
I can see where you are coming from but I still have to disagree.
Usually when someone cheats it is because there is something missing from the relationship. There is something else they consciously or subconsciously want that they aren't getting and thus they seek it elsewhere. What they want may even be unattainable, or their expectations may just be unrealistic. This is typically the case with chronic cheaters.
Originally Posted by DC2
Easy for you girls, just find the nearest lonely guy and have your way with him
Getting completely wasted and/or sleeping with someone else are resorts I have fallen onto in the past, but they are not really healthy solutions to getting over someone. EriksShadow's recomendations were pretty good
Originally Posted by EriksShadow
Just do for you... Improve yourself and work on your happiness.
Me personaly, I would recommend meditation, yoga, and reading up on new things.
But that's just what I do.
The best thing to do is first accept that you are hurt and allow yourself to grieve, but don't dwell on it and mope and weep about for weeks over your ex. Then just work on what you need to do for yourself to make your life better and increase your own happiness. Eventually the scars will heal and you will meet someone else when the time is right. Don't rush things. There is no set formula for how long it take to get over someone. Dwelling on it and wallowing in despair and self-pity will only make it take longer. Moving on with your life will make it go much quicker. Sex with v8guy will instantly make you forget all about other guys. (J/K
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